
Good morning, world. Things are looking pretty good from the front porch of my farm in Virginia today. It’s a new day of a new week, and I woke up with a lot on my mind this morning, and I couldn’t get into the Presence of the Most High God fast enough because of it. All of those thoughts about all those things whirling around in my mind had the potential to consume my day and cause doubt in my Spirit if not for the fact that I Know how to Work on myself to Prepare. No amount of human intervention can manage all those things whirling around in my mind, and no amount of thinking them through will make them any less challenging to bear. But no matter how cluttered up my mind can get with all of those things going on in my life on any given day, I know the Living God has control of it all. I don’t need to work myself to death, and I don’t need to fret…ever. All I ever need to do is to Surrender and Trust.
Trusting isn’t always easy, especially for those who have been hurt. Just a little sting brought on by someone who disappoints us with their words, or “hurts” us with their behavior, and we have the potential to withdraw in a quick minute…and worse yet, we justify our behavior when we do. Sadly, from that point forward, we are happy to remind the “wrongdoer” over and over again about why they aren’t worthy of our trust, and more often than not, we never extend trust to them again. Instead, we hold it in reserve for a time when we might have the chance to strike back for all the ways they’ve hurt us. We take “an eye for an eye” to the emotional level until it becomes a cancer of the Heart and Soul. It’s not a pretty sight to encounter people with “trust issues”. They can talk until they turn blue about all the things that have been “done to them” and all the reasons the world is not worthy of their trust, and their bitterness shows from the inside out. They’ll fly off the handle at the slightest hint of something that reminds them of a time of “betrayal,” and they live life armed and ready to do battle. They aren’t pleasant to be around, that’s for sure. Neither Kindness, Compassion, nor Love can be seen in these people because they’re too busy licking wounds and festering over the wrongs that others have committed against them, refusing to let go, and they’re rotting from the inside out. They refuse to accept the fact that trusting is a CHOICE, and refusing to trust again after we’ve been wronged has more to do with (un)forgiveness than anything else.
It’s ONLY when we can look at life through a Spiritual Set of Eyes that we learn to put things like Trust and Forgiveness in Perspective. When we look through a Spiritual Set of Eyes, we’re able to look at ourselves with 20/20 vision, and we can see all of our own Wrongs that have been Forgiven by way of Unconditional Love of Jesus Christ. It’s when we look at Life through a Spiritual Set of Eyes that we learn to turn the other cheek and we learn to easily extend Grace instead of keeping score. It’s when we look at life through a Spiritual Set of Eyes that we realize that the one committing the wrong against us will be reckoned with without any help from us at all, and it’s when we look at things that way, we learn to extend Compassion to the wrong-doer because we Know that “it’s a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the Living God”. It’s when we look at life through a Spiritual Set of Eyes that we Understand that “our struggle is not against flesh and blood” and we know who the real enemy is, AND we realize that unless we’re Armed and Ready, we have the potential to do the same wrong to someone else. When we look at life through a Spiritual Set of Eyes, it’s not possible to forget about the BIGGEST BETRAYAL of all time. When Jesus was betrayed and sent to die in the most painful and shameful way, He found the breath and the strength to say, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do”. It’s when we look at life through a Spiritual Set of Eyes that we understand that if we fester with unforgiveness in the Heart and we refuse to trust because of our pain, it’s not possible to Trust Him or to understand the sacrifice He made for all of those wrongs we’ve committed against Him either. To Forgive and to Trust is a choice, and IF you want to be forgiven by Him for all the sins of your past and all the ones in the future, then you’d better learn to Forgive. Otherwise, “it’s a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the Living God”.
I had some things whirling around in my head this morning, and my thoughts were as scattered as stars in the sky because of it, BUT it didn’t take long for me to realize that all of those thoughts were a sign of my lack of Trust in the Living God and that I was (once again) attempting to steer the Ship! But the good news is that after a little Time in the Spiritual Woodshed with the One Who died for me, and I’m looking at Life with a Spiritual Set of Eyes all over again.
How about you? Do you REFUSE to extend trust and forgiveness, and do you live your life like you’re the one in charge of Balancing the Scales for all those Wrongs? If so, reach out to me. I’ll sit you down and explain what Forgiveness really looks like, and I’ll explain the consequences of refusing to Trust, and when I’m done with you, Grace will be your middle name, and you’ll be turning the other cheek every chance you get, too!









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